Contemporary Family Therapy

, Volume 10, Issue 1, pp 3–16 | Cite as

Gaslighting: A marital syndrome

  • Gertrude Zemon Gass
  • William C. Nichols
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Abstract

This paper is concerned with certain male behaviors during and after their extramarital affairs and the impact of those behaviors and associated attitudes on the men's spouses. The observations cited here are drawn from clinical samples but seemingly have some features in common with what appears in nonclinical populations as well. Not only the husbands but also male therapists may contribute to the women's distress through mislabeling the women's reactions and through continuation of certain stereotypical attitudes that reflect negatively on the wife whose husband has had an affair.

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© Human Sciences Press 1988

Authors and Affiliations

  • Gertrude Zemon Gass
    • 1
  • William C. Nichols
    • 1
  1. 1.Birmingham

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