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A case is made for the therapeutic benefits of well-timed, prudently ventured sarcastic comments directed at persons in the patients'llives, including the therapist, who are experienced as failing them. Literature on use of humor in therapy is reviewed. The circumstances under which humor may be experienced empathically are suggested, as well as instances in which it may be contraindicated.
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Ruvelson, L. The empathic use of sarcasm: Humor in psychotherapy from a self psychological perspective. Clin Soc Work J 16, 297–305 (1988). https://doi.org/10.1007/BF00753298
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