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This paper will address the methods utilized in encouraging the redirection of blaming in marital therapy. In this author's view, significant and lasting changes in marital interaction require that each spouse address his or her individual contributions to the conflictual relationship. Case material will be presented which illustrates the couple's shift from nonproductive blaming to greater self-understanding as the therapist orchestrates the shift from externalization to self-exploration.
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Beck, R.L. Redirecting blaming in marital psychotherapy. Clin Soc Work J 15, 148–158 (1987). https://doi.org/10.1007/BF00752908
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