Seventy-two men and 86 women read vignettes describing five coercive strategies for obtaining sexual intercourse on a date. Subjects rated the acceptability of strategies used by male and female initiators for couples who were or were not sexually intimate. Subjects generally rejected all tactics. Results revealed a continuum of increasing rejection from verbal pressure and sexual stimulation, followed by mock force, followed by intoxication and physical force. Although women were more rejecting of any strategy than were men, women were slightly less opposed to verbal pressure and stimulation for “more sex” rather than for “first-time sex.” Women equally rejected most male- and female-initiated strategies, but men were more accepting of female-initiated strategies. Results are explained in terms of sex role norms prescribing that men be initiators and women be gatekeepers in sexual interaction.
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Struckman-Johnson, D., Struckman-Johnson, C. Men and women's acceptance of coercive sexual strategies varied by initiator gender and couple intimacy. Sex Roles 25, 661–676 (1991). https://doi.org/10.1007/BF00289570
- Social Psychology
- Sexual Intercourse
- Sexual Interaction
- Physical Force
- Female Initiator