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Do contemporary fathers have the same kinds of goals, beliefs, aspirations, and expectations about their children that fathers had 30 years ago? To answer this question, we interviewed 102 White fathers of 133 daughters and 126 sons about the topics probed by Aberle and Naegele (1952). We also asked about how the fathers expressed approval and disapproval of their children's behaviors, about their techniques for encouraging their children to develop the traits the fathers considered desirable, and about the sources of sex education for children. In general, our contemporary fathers mimicked some of the expectations of the earlier group and differed in others. Like the earlier group, some expectations were gender stereotypic. These expectations presumably function to restrict or limit the socialization of their children. More striking were the differences in the two sets of responses. In contrast to the statements from Aberle and Naegele's fathers, our fathers expressed many similar expectations for their daughters and sons. The educational and occupational levels of the fathers and the family composition qualified only a few of the above results.
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The author is very grateful to K. Bloom, G. Burch, and N. Kipnis for interviewing most of the fathers and helping with data interpretation. She also wishes to thank L. Baer and L. White for their assistance in interviewing. Particular thanks are due M. Reddel for her editorial comments.
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Intons-Peterson, M.J. Fathers' expectations and aspirations for their children. Sex Roles 12, 877–895 (1985). https://doi.org/10.1007/BF00287879
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