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Gender differences in cross-generation networks

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In later life, cross-generational networks are primarily among kin; friends are considered to be of the same cohort. Kin networks are likely to have an integrity of their own, independent of any of their members. Members are likely to share basic values or to avoid issues that might cause conflict or estrangement. Sex differences are profound. Mother-daughter bonds are both strongest throughout life and most complex, serving to link household units into modified extended family networks. Major life events like marriage of a daughter, birth of a child, or illness of a parent alternatively loosen or strengthen these bonds. Critical conceptual/methodological problems abound, such as definitions of the basic constructs like “closeness,” and “affect.”

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Troll, L.E. Gender differences in cross-generation networks. Sex Roles 17, 751–766 (1987). https://doi.org/10.1007/BF00287686

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