Review of Economics of the Household

, Volume 11, Issue 3, pp 447–467 | Cite as

Children, spousal love, and happiness: an economic analysis

  • Shoshana GrossbardEmail author
  • Sankar Mukhopadhyay


In this paper we examine how children affect happiness and relationships within a family by analyzing two unique questions in the National Longitudinal Study of Youth’s 1997 cohort. We find that (a) presence of children is associated with a loss of spousal love; (b) loss of spousal love is associated with loss of overall happiness; but (c) presence of children is not associated with significant loss of overall happiness. If children reduce feelings of being loved by the spouse but do not reduce reported happiness even though spousal love induces happiness, then it must be the case that children contribute to parental happiness by providing other benefits. After ruling out some competing compensation mechanisms we infer that loss of spousal love is compensated with altruistic feelings towards children.


Children Happiness Emotions Marriage Religion 

JEL Classification

J13 D10 



We thank the referees, J. Ignacio Gimenez, Lawrence Iannaconne, Pierre-Guillaume Meon, Ariane Sarfadz, and participants at seminars at Chapman University and the Brussels School of Economics and Management for helpful comments.


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Authors and Affiliations

  1. 1.Department of EconomicsSan Diego State UniversitySan DiegoUSA
  2. 2.University of ZaragozaZaragozaSpain
  3. 3.IZABonnGermany
  4. 4.University of NevadaRenoUSA

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