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Clinical Social Work Journal

, Volume 37, Issue 3, pp 224–229 | Cite as

Gender Perspective in Cross-Cultural Couples

  • Judith Kellner
Original Paper

Abstract

This article explores gender perspective in clinical work with couples whose romantic choices fall across cultural, racial and religious lines. A conceptual framework is presented to track the dimensions of differences between the two partners in intercultural couples (collective vs. individualistic). The article illustrates how emotional expressiveness, continuum of autonomy, gender differentiation, and sexuality play out in intimate cross-cultural relationships. It also shows how the embedded, culturally assigned gender beliefs and roles are addressed in treatment. Examples from the author’s clinical work are presented throughout the article.

Keywords

Cross-cultural couples Gender Immigration Interfaith Identity Autonomy 

Notes

Acknowledgment

The author gratefully acknowledges the “cross cultural” influence of Esther Perel.

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Authors and Affiliations

  1. 1.New YorkUSA

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