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“Women Like You Keep Women Like Me Down”: Understanding Intergenerational Conflict and Work-Life Balance from a Discourse Perspective

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In a fairly recent phenomenon, four generations of women are now present in the workplace (Martin CA, Tulgan B, Managing the generation mix: from urgency to opportunity, 2nd edn. HRD Press, Amherst, 2006; Zemke R, Raines C, Filipczak B, Generations at work: managing the clash of veterans, boomers, Xers, and Nexters in your workplace. American Management Association, New York, 2000). While the research attending to issues of work and life, conflict and balance, is burgeoning, scant attention has been paid to intergenerational work-life conflict. This chapter explores some of the underlying tensions and differences that lie at the nexus of intergenerational conflict in the work-life context seeking to disrupt staid stereotypes and offer pathways in which women across generations may find commonality and bridge differences. A review of the literature and contemporary research trends suggest intergenerational conflict in the work-life context illuminates gendered and structured imbalances in the workplace. In light of this, the chapter challenges present conceptions of what counts as a work ethic and predicts generational responses to gendered structures will challenge assumptions about how women will work in the future.

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    For simplicity of reading, I do not use the big D little d distinction in this chapter.

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    The most recent reports on this subject show Millennial women earning 92 % of their male counterparts earnings at the beginning of their careers. However, whether they will maintain this narrowing of the wage gap throughout their careers has not yet been determined and has not panned out for previous generations of women (Pew Research Social and Demographic Trends 2013).

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Heath, R.G. (2016). “Women Like You Keep Women Like Me Down”: Understanding Intergenerational Conflict and Work-Life Balance from a Discourse Perspective. In: Connerley, M., Wu, J. (eds) Handbook on Well-Being of Working Women. International Handbooks of Quality-of-Life. Springer, Dordrecht. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-94-017-9897-6_5

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