Skip to main content
Log in

American Jewishness Today: Identity and Transmissibility in an Open World

Marshall Sklare Award Lecture

  • Published:
Contemporary Jewry Aims and scope Submit manuscript

Abstract

Three challenges to Jewish family formation—late marriage and non-marriage, unwanted low fertility and infertility, and mixed marriage—are produced, in part, by the larger society’s social norms and deeply influenced by American culture. Each of these challenges, in turn, has a profound effect on the transmission of Jewish culture to the next generations. Jewish population density and social circles, including the family, are critical predictors of Jewish identity in adulthood; since the majority of American Jews do not live in densely Jewish neighborhoods, the Jewish engagement of the family of origin and Jewish education are the primary socializing agents for Jewish adulthood. Jews in the past have frequently established Jewish connections when they married and became parents, but today’s younger Jewish adults often value “finding themselves” over establishing families. Adult Jewish engagements are often delayed in tandem with marital status. Demands of community seem less pressing than personal spiritual searches, and this preeminence of individualized spiritual searches is not limited to moderately involved Jews, but is also characteristic of some highly involved younger American Jews. These patterns among American Jews are part of broader American patterns of changing attitudes toward gender, sexuality, love, and marriage on family formation beginning in the 1960s. Like delayed marriage and parenthood, intermarriage is enthusiastically supported by the wider American culture. Thus, resisting these trends which undermine cultural transmission demands dynamic countercultural interventions.

This is a preview of subscription content, log in via an institution to check access.

Access this article

Price excludes VAT (USA)
Tax calculation will be finalised during checkout.

Instant access to the full article PDF.

Similar content being viewed by others

References

  • Angier, Natalie. 2013. Families. The New York Times, Science Times D1, November 26.

  • Bernstein, Rachel S., and Sylvia Barack Fishman. 2015. Judaism as the “third shift”: Jewish families negotiating work, family, and religious lives. In Love, marriage, and Jewish families: Paradoxes of a social revolution, ed. Sylvia Barack Fishman. Waltham, MA: University Press of New England/Brandeis University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Blow, Charles M. 2012. Santorum and the sexual revolution: at war with the 1960s. The New York Times, March 3. Retrieved from http://www.nytimes.com/2012/03/03/opinion/blow-santorum-and-the-sexual-revolution.html.

  • Cherlin, Andrew J. 2005. American marriage in the early twenty-first century. The Future of Children 15(2): 33–55.

    Google Scholar 

  • Cherry, Robert. 1998. Rational choice and the price of marriage. Feminist Economics 4(1): 27–49.

    Google Scholar 

  • Chiswick, Barry R. 1986. Human capital and the labor market adjustment of immigrants: Testing alternative hypotheses. Research in Human Capital and Development.

  • Chiswick, Carmel. 2014. Judaism in transition: How economic choices shape religious tradition. Stanford, CA: Stanford University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Christakis, Nicholas A., and James H. Fowler. 2009. Connected: How your friends’ friends’ friends affect everything you feel, think, and do. Boston: Back Bay Books/Little Brown and Company.

    Google Scholar 

  • Cohen, Steven M. 1987. The quality of American Jewish life: A reason for optimism. New York: American Jewish Committee.

    Google Scholar 

  • Cohen, Steven M. 2012. Jews on the borderland: The complicated, fluid, and episodic nature of Jewish identity (for some) today. Strom Lecture at University of Washington, 23 April.

  • Cohen, Steven M., and Arnold Eisen. 2000. The Jew within: Self, family and community in America. Bloomington: Indiana University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Cohen, Steven M., Jack Ukeles, and Ron Miller. 2012. Jewish community study of New York: 2011 comprehensive report. New York: UJA-Federation of New York.

  • Coontz, Stephanie. 2011. A strange stirring: The feminine mystique and American women at the dawn of the 1960s. New York: Basic Books.

  • Cunningham, Carolyn. 2003. Creating a life: Professional women and the quest for children. Book review in Journal of the Association for Research on Mothering 5(1): 205–206.

    Google Scholar 

  • DellaPergola, Sergio. 2015. View from a different planet: Fertility attitudes, performances, and policies among Jewish Israelis. In Love, Marriage, and Jewish Families: Paradoxes of a Social Revolution, ed. Sylvia Barack Fishman. Waltham, MA: University Press of New England/Brandeis University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Ehrenreich, Barbara. 1983. The hearts of men: American dreams and the flight from commitment. Garden City, NY: Anchor Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Erikson, Erik. 1950. Childhood and society. New York: W. W. Norton.

    Google Scholar 

  • Fishman, Sylvia Barack. 2000. Jewish life and American culture. Albany: State University of New York Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Fishman, Sylvia Barack. 2004. Double or nothing? Jewish families and mixed marriage. Waltham, MA: University Press of New England/Brandeis University Press.

  • Fishman, Sylvia Barack. 2006. Choosing Jewish: Conversations about conversion. New York: American Jewish Committee.

    Google Scholar 

  • Fishman, Sylvia Barack. 2007. Teenagers, their parents, and Jewish educators and thinkers. In Family Matters: Jewish Education in an Age of Choice, ed. Jack Wertheimer, 181–212. Waltham, MA: University Press of New England/Brandeis University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Fishman, Sylvia Barack (ed.). 2015. Love, marriage, and Jewish families: Paradoxes of a social revolution. Waltham, MA: University Press of New England/Brandeis University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Fishman, Sylvia Barack, and Steven M. Cohen. 2015. The transmission of Jewish identity: Major variations and their policy implications. Jerusalem: JPPI Annual Assessment.

    Google Scholar 

  • Fishman, Sylvia Barack, Rachel S. Bernstein, and Emily Sigalow. 2011. Reimagining Jewishness: Younger American Jewish leaders, entrepreneurs, and artists in cultural context. In The New Jewish Leaders: Reshaping the American Jewish Landscape, ed. Jack Wertheimer, 159–213. Waltham, MA: University Press of New England/Brandeis University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Friedan, Betty. 1963. The feminine mystique. New York: Norton.

    Google Scholar 

  • Gardner, Laura. 2014. Rules of engagement. Brandeis Magazine, Summer: 12–15. Waltham, MA: Brandeis University.

  • Gerson, Kathleen. 2010. The unfinished revolution: Coming of age in a new era of gender, work, and family. Oxford, New York: Oxford University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Goldstein, Sidney, and Alice Goldstein. 1996. Jews on the move: Implications for Jewish identity. Albany: SUNY Series on Jewish Life in the 1990s.

    Google Scholar 

  • Hartman, Harriet, and Moshe Hartman. 2009. Gender and American Jews: Patterns in work, education, and family in contemporary life. Waltham, MA; Hanover, NH: University Press of New England/Brandeis University Press.

  • Hartman, Harriet, and Ira Sheskin. 2011. The influence of community context and individual characteristics on Jewish identity: A 21-community study. New York: North American Jewish Data Bank 24–25(50): 60.

    Google Scholar 

  • Henig, Robin Marantz. 2010. What is it about 20-somethings? NYTimes Magazine, August 18. Retrieved from http://www.nytimes.com/2010/08/22/magazine/22Adulthoodt.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0.

  • Hewlett, Sylvia Ann. 2002. Creating a life: What every woman needs to know about having a baby and a career. New York: Miramax.

    Google Scholar 

  • Horowitz, Bethamie. 2003. Connections and journeys: Assessing critical opportunities for enhancing Jewish identity, 9. New York: UJA Jewish Federation.

  • Johnson, Diane. 2012. Mothers beware! The New York Review of Books, June 21, 23–25.

  • Kadushin, Charles. 2011. Understanding social networks: Theories, concepts, and findings. Oxford: Oxford University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Kadushin, Charles, Leonard Saxe, and Benjamin Phillips. 2006. Boston’s good news about intermarriage. The Jewish Week. November 21.

  • Keizer, Garret. 2012. Homeward bound: The rise of multi-generational and one-person households. New York Times Book Review, March 2. Retrieved from http://www.nytimes.com/2012/03/04/books/review/the-rise-of-multigenerational-and-one-person-households.html.

  • Kelner, Shaul. 2002. School friends and camp friends: The social networks of Jewish teenagers. Association for Jewish Studies Annual Meeting, Los Angeles, Regular session paper.

  • Kelner, Shaul. 2010. Tours that bind: Diaspora, pilgrimage, and Israeli Birthright tourism. New York: NYU Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Lugo, Luis, Alan Cooperman, Gregory A. Smith, Erin O’Connell, and Stencell Sandra. 2013. A portrait of Jewish Americans: Findings from a Pew Research Center survey of US Jews. Washington, DC: Pew Research Center’s Religion & Public Life Project.

    Google Scholar 

  • Miller, Claire Cain. 2014. The divorce surge is over, but the myth lives on. New York Times, December 2, 2014. Retrieved from http://www.nytimes.com/2014/12/02/upshot/the-divorce-surge-is-over-but-the-myth-lives-on.html.

  • Nock, Steven L. 2000. The divorce of marriage and parenthood. Journal of Family Therapy 22: 245–263.

    Google Scholar 

  • Parmer, Daniel. 2015. What’s love got to do with it? Marriage and non-marriage among younger American Jews. In Love, marriage, and Jewish families: Paradoxes of a social revolution, ed. Sylvia Barack Fishman. Waltham, MA: University Press of New England/Brandeis University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Prell, Riv-Ellen. 2014. The (un) importance of Jewish difference. Mosaic Magazine. November 17.

  • Putnam, Robert. 2000. Bowling alone: The collapse and revival of American community. New York: Simon & Schuster.

    Google Scholar 

  • Putnam, Robert. 2007. E Pluribus Unum: Diversity and community in the twenty-first century. Scandinavian Political Studies 30(2): 137–174.

    Google Scholar 

  • Rosman, Moshe. 2013. From knowledge culture to discourse culture: The changing mission of Judaica Libraries. Jerusalem: National Library of Israel.

  • Sandberg, Sheryl and Adam Grant. 2015. Four part series on women in the office. New York Times.

  • Sarna, Jonathan. 2004. American Judaism: A history. New Haven and London: Yale University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Saxe, Leonard. 2014. The Sky Is Falling! The Sky Is Falling! A reanalysis of last year’s important Pew Study contradicts persistent alarmism about ‘vanishing’ American Jewry. Tablet magazine. December 3.

  • Schafly, Phyllis. 2014. Who killed the American family. Washington, DC: WND Books.

    Google Scholar 

  • Shain, Michelle. 2015. Dreams and realities: American Jews young adults’ decisions about fertility. In Love, marriage, and Jewish families: Paradoxes of a social revolution, ed. Sylvia Barack Fishman. Waltham, MA: University Press of New England/Brandeis University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Sheskin, Ira M., and Harriet Hartman. 2015. The facts about intermarriage. Journal of Jewish Identities 8(1): 149–178.

    Google Scholar 

  • Stevenson, Betsey, and Justin Wolfers. 2014. Marriage and divorce: Changes and driving forces. Washington, DC: NBER Working Paper No. 12944.

    Google Scholar 

  • Stevenson, Richard W. 2012. Social issues return to dominant role in national debate. The New York Times, February 5.

  • Tavris, Carol, and Susan Sadd. 1977. The Redbook report on female sexuality. New York: Delacourt Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Waters, Mary. 1990. Ethnic options: Choosing identities in America. Berkeley: University of California Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Wylie, Philip. 1942. Generation of vipers. New York/ Toronto: Rinehart.

    Google Scholar 

Additional Works Consulted

  • Badinter, Elisabeth. 2012. The conflict: How modern motherhood undermines the status of women. New York: Metropolitan.

    Google Scholar 

  • Bane, Mary Jo. 1976. Here to stay: American families in the twentieth century. New York, NY: Basic Books.

    Google Scholar 

  • Barnett, Rosalind, and Caryl Rivers. 2004. Same difference: How gender myths are hurting our relationships, our children, and our jobs. New York: Basic Books.

    Google Scholar 

  • Baruch, Grace, Rosalind Barnett, and Caryl Rivers. 1983. Lifeprints: New patterns of love and work for today’s women. New York: New American Library.

    Google Scholar 

  • Becker, Gary S. 1973. A theory of marriage: Part I. The Journal of Political Economy 81: 813–846.

    Google Scholar 

  • Becker, Gary S. 1974. A theory of marriage: Part II. The Journal of Political Economy 82: S11–S26.

    Google Scholar 

  • Bianchi, Suzanne M., and Melissa A. Milkie. 2010. Work and family research in the first decade of the 21st Century. Journal of Marriage & Family 72(3): 705–725.

    Google Scholar 

  • Bianchi, Suzanne M., John Robinson, Liana Sayer, and Melissa Milkie. 2000. Is anyone doing the housework? Trends in the gender division of household labor. Social Forces 79: 191–228.

    Google Scholar 

  • Bishop, William. 1984. “Is he married?”: Marriage as information. The University of Toronto Law Journal 34: 245–262.

    Google Scholar 

  • Blankenhorn, David, Steven Bayme, and Jean Bethke Elshtain (eds.). 1990. Rebuilding the nest: A new commitment to the American family. Milwaukee, WI: Family Service America.

    Google Scholar 

  • Blossfeld, Hans-Peter, and Andreas Timm. 2003. Who marries whom?: Educational systems as marriage markets in modern societies. Dordrecht; Boston: Kluwer Academic.

    Google Scholar 

  • Brown, Susan L., and Alan Booth. 1996. Cohabitation versus marriage: A comparison of relationship quality. Journal of Marriage and the Family 58: 668–678.

    Google Scholar 

  • Cadge, Wendy, and Lynn Davidman. 2006. Ascription, choice, and the construction of religious identities in the contemporary United States. Journal for the Scientific Study of Religion 45: 23–38.

    Google Scholar 

  • Call, Vaughn R.A., and Tim B. Heaton. 1997. Religious influence on marital stability. Journal for the Scientific Study of Religion 36: 382–392.

    Google Scholar 

  • Chambers, Deborah. 2006. New social ties: Contemporary connections in a fragmented society. New York: Palgrave Macmillan.

    Google Scholar 

  • Chapman, Tony. 2003. Gender and domestic life: Changing practices in families and households. New York: Palgrave Macmillan.

    Google Scholar 

  • Cherlin, Andrew J. 2004. The deinstitutionalization of American marriage. Journal of Marriage and Family 66(4): 848–861.

    Google Scholar 

  • Cherlin, Andrew J. 2009. The marriage-go-round: The state of marriage and the family in America today, 1st ed. New York: Alfred A. Knopf.

    Google Scholar 

  • Chertok, Fern, Benjamin Phillips, and Leonard Saxe. 2008. “It’s not just who stands under the chuppah”: Intermarriage and engagement. Waltham, MA: Cohen Center for Modern Jewish Studies; Steinhardt Social Research Institute, Brandeis University.

    Google Scholar 

  • Chiswick, Barry R. 2010. The economic progress of American Jewry: From 18th century merchants to 21st century professionals. In Oxford Handbook of Judaism and Economics, ed. A. Levine, 625–645. New York, NY: Oxford University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Chiswick, Barry R., and Carmel U. Chiswick. 2007. The economic status of American Jews in the Twentieth Century. In Encyclopedia of American Jewish History, ed. S.H. Norwood, and E.G. Pollack, 62–66. Santa Barbara, CA: ABC-CLIO.

    Google Scholar 

  • Cohen, Steven M. 2006. A tale of two Jewries: The ‘Inconvenient Truth’ for American Jews. New York: Jewish Life Network/Steinhardt Foundation.

    Google Scholar 

  • Cohen, Steven M., and Ari Y. Kelman. 2008. Uncoupled: How our singles are reshaping Jewish engagement. New York: The Jewish Identity Project of Reboot Andrea and Charles Bronfman Philanthropies.

    Google Scholar 

  • Coontz, Stephanie. 1992. The way we never were: American families and the nostalgia trap. New York: Basic Books.

    Google Scholar 

  • Coontz, Stephanie. 1998. The social origins of private life: A history of American families 1600–1900. London, UK: Verso.

    Google Scholar 

  • Coontz, Stephanie. 2005. Marriage, a history: How love conquered marriage. New York: Viking.

    Google Scholar 

  • Coontz, Stephanie. 2014. The new instability: women expect more, while men can provide less. The New York Times, July 27. Retrieved from http://www.nytimes.com/2014/07/27/opinion/sunday/the-new-instability.html.

  • Copen, Casey E., Kimberly Daniels, Jonathan Vespa, and William D. Mosher. 2012. First marriages in the United States: Data from the 2006-2010 National Survey of Family Growth. National health statistics reports; no. 49. Hyattsville, MD: National Center for Health Statistics.

  • DellaPergola, Sergio, and Leah Cohen. 1992. World Jewish population: Trends and policies. Jerusalem: The Hebrew University, Jewish Population Studies.

    Google Scholar 

  • DellaPergola, Sergio. 2002. Demography. In The Oxford Handbook of Jewish Studies, ed. M. Goodman, 797–823. New York, NY: Oxford University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • DellaPergola, Sergio. 2009a. Actual, intended, and appropriate family size among Jews in Israel. Contemporary Jewry 29(2): 127–152.

    Google Scholar 

  • DellaPergola, Sergio. 2009b. International migration of Jews. In Transnationalism: Diasporas and the advent of a new (dis)order, ed. E. Ben-Rafael, and Y. Sternberg, 213–236. Leiden and Boston: Brill.

    Google Scholar 

  • DellaPergola, Sergio. 2011a. Fertility Prospects in Israel: Ever Below Replacement Level? New York, United Nations Secretariat, Department of Economic and Social Affairs. Population Division. Expert Paper 2011(9): 1–36.

    Google Scholar 

  • DellaPergola, Sergio. 2011b. Jewish demographic policies: Population trends and options in Israel and in the Diaspora. Jerusalem: The Jewish People Policy Institute.

    Google Scholar 

  • DePaulo, Bella. 2006. Single out: How singles are stereotyped, stigmatized, ignored and still live happily ever after. New York: St. Martin’s Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Douthat, Ross. 2012. More babies, please. The New York Times, December 2, p. 11.

  • Edgell, Penny. 2006. Religion and family in a changing society. Princeton, NJ: Princeton University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Ellwood, David T., and Christopher Jencks. 2004. The Spread of single-parent families in the United States since 1960. In The future of the family, ed. D.P. Moynihan, T.M. Smeeding, and L. Rainwater, 25–65. New York, NY: Russell Sage Foundation.

    Google Scholar 

  • Firestone, Shulamith. 1971. The dialectic of sex. New York: Morrow.

    Google Scholar 

  • Fishman, Sylvia Barack. 1993. A breath of life: Feminism in the American Jewish community. New York, NY: Free Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Fishman, Sylvia Barack. 2005. Choosing lives: evolving gender roles in American Jewish families. In The Cambridge Companion to American Judaism, ed. D.E. Kaplan, 237–252. New York, NY: Cambridge University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Fishman, Sylvia Barack. 2008a. Double or nothing? Jewish families and mixed marriage. Hanover, NH: Brandeis University Press.

  • Fishman, Sylvia Barack. 2008b. Reading from right to left: Fundamentalism, feminism, and women’s changing roles in Jewish societies. In Fundamentalism and women in world religions, ed. A. Sharma, and K. Young, 77–112. New York, London: T & T Clark International.

    Google Scholar 

  • Fishman, Sylvia Barack. 2014. Gender in American Jewish life. In The American Jewish Year Book 2014, ed. A. Dashefsky, and I. Sheskin, 91–131. New York: Springer.

    Google Scholar 

  • Fishman, Sylvia Barack, and Daniel Parmer. 2008. Matrilineal ascent/patrilineal descent: The gender imbalance in American Jewish life. Waltham, MA: Cohen Center for Modern Jewish Studies and Hadassah-Brandeis Institute, Brandeis University.

    Google Scholar 

  • Frank, Shirley. 1978. The population panic: Why Jewish leaders want Jewish women to be fruitful and multiply. Lilith (1976–1989) 1(4): 12.

    Google Scholar 

  • Friedan, Betty. 1986. The second stage. New York: Summit Books.

    Google Scholar 

  • Giddens, Anthony. 1992. The transformation of intimacy: Sexuality, love, and eroticism in modern societies. Cambridge: Polity Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Gilligan, Carol. 1982. In a different voice: Psychological theory and women’s development. Cambridge: Harvard University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Glendon, May Ann. 1987. Abortion and divorce in Western law. Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Glendon, Mary Ann. 1989. The transformation of family law, state law and family in the United States and Western Europe. Chicago and London: The University of Chicago Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Gottlieb, Lori. 2010. Marry him: The case for settling for Mr. Good Enough. Dutton: New York.

    Google Scholar 

  • Gregory, Elizabeth. 2007. Ready: Why women are embracing the new later motherhood. New York: Basic Books.

    Google Scholar 

  • Grossbard-Schechtman, Shoshana. 2003. Marriage and the economy: Theory and evidence from advanced industrial societies. Cambridge, UK, and New York: Cambridge University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Hartman, Harriet. March 2007. The intersection of gender and religion in the demography of today’s American Jewish families. Brandeis University Seminar on Creating and Maintaining Jewish Families.

  • Hartman, Harriet. 2010. Response to: “Is the prospect for the future of American Jewry positive or negative?” Paper presented at the Association for Jewish Studies 42nd Annual Conference, Boston, MA.

  • Hayford, Sarah R. 2009. The evolution of fertility expectations over the life course. Demography 46(4): 765–783.

    Google Scholar 

  • Hayford, Sarah R., and S.Philip Morgan. 2008. Religiosity and fertility in the United States: The role of fertility intentions. Social Forces 86(3): 1163–1188.

    Google Scholar 

  • Héran, François. 2013. Fertility and family-support policies: what can we learn from the European experience? Keynote speech presented at XXVII IUSSP International Population Conference, Busan.

  • Hewlett, Sylvia Ann. 1986. A lesser life: The myth of women’s liberation in America. New York: William Morrow & Co.

    Google Scholar 

  • Hochschild, Arlie Russell. 1997. The time bind: When work becomes home and home becomes work. New York: Metropolitan Books.

    Google Scholar 

  • Hochschild, Arlie Russell. 2012. The outsourced self: Intimate life in market times. New York, NY: Metropolitan Books.

    Google Scholar 

  • Hochschild, Arlie Russell and Anne Machung. 2012 [1989]. The second shift: Working families and the revolution at home. New York: Penguin Books.

  • Hoffman-Nowotny, Hans J. 1987. The future of the family. In European Population Conference, 1987, Vol. I, Plenaries, pp. 113–198. Helsinki: IUSSP/EAPS/FINNCO.

  • Howe, Louise K. (ed.). 1972. The future of the family. New York: Simon and Schuster.

    Google Scholar 

  • Hrdy, Sarah Blaffer. 1999. Mother nature: Maternal instincts and how they shape the human species. New York: Ballantine.

    Google Scholar 

  • Jay, Meg. 2012. The downside of cohabiting before marriage. The New York Times, April 15. Retrieved from http://www.nytimes.com/2012/04/15/opinion/sunday/the-downside-of-cohabiting-before-marriage.html.

  • Kadushin, Charles. 1968. Reason analysis. In International Encyclopedia of the Social Sciences, ed. D. Sills, 338–343. New York: The MacMillan Company & The Free Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Kadushin, Charles, Shaul Kelner, and Leonard Saxe. 2000. Being a Jewish teenager in America: Trying to make it. Waltham, MA: Cohen Center for Modern Jewish Studies, Brandeis University.

    Google Scholar 

  • Kadushin, Charles, Benjamin Phillips, and Leonard Saxe. 2005. National Jewish Population Survey 2000–01: A guide for the perplexed. Contemporary Jewry 25: 1–31.

    Google Scholar 

  • Kahn, Susan Martha. 2000. Reproducing Jews: A cultural account of assisted conception in Israel. Durham: Duke University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Klinenberg, Eric. 2012. Going solo: The extraordinary rise and surprising appeal of living alone. New York: The Penguin Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Kosmin, Barry A., and Ariela Keysar. 2006. Religion in a free market. Ithaca, NY: Paramount Market Publishing.

    Google Scholar 

  • Kotler-Berkowitz, Laurence, Steven M. Cohen, Jonathon Amen, Vivian Klaff, Frank Mott, and Danyelle Peckermen-Neuman. 2003. The National Jewish Population Survey 2000–01: Strength, challenge and diversity in the American Jewish community. New York: United Jewish Communities.

    Google Scholar 

  • Kreider, Rose M., and Renee Ellis. 2011. Number, timing, and duration of marriages and divorces: 2009 Current Population Reports. Washington DC: US Census Bureau.

    Google Scholar 

  • Manning, Wendy A., and Jessica A. Cohen. 2012. Premarital cohabitation and marital dissolution: An examination of recent marriages. Journal of Marriage and Family 74(2): 377–387.

    Google Scholar 

  • Martinez, Gladys M., Kimberly Daniels and Anjani Chandra. 2012. Fertility of men and women aged 15–44 years in the United States: National Survey of Family Growth, 2006–2010. National health statistics reports; no. 51. Hyattsville, MD: National Center for Health Statistics.

  • May, Elaine Tyler. 1988. Homeward bound: American families in the Cold War era. New York, NY: Basic Books.

    Google Scholar 

  • McGinity, Keren. 2009. Still Jewish: A history of women and intermarriage in America. New York: New York University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • McKaughan, Molly. 1987. The biological clock: Balancing marriage, motherhood and career, 1987. New York: Penguin.

    Google Scholar 

  • McLanahan, Sara. 2004. Diverging destinies: How children are faring under the second demographic transition. Demography 41(4): 607–627.

    Google Scholar 

  • Milkie, Melissa A., Sara B. Raley, and Suzanne M. Bianchi. 2009. Taking on the second shift: Time allocations and time pressures of US parents with preschoolers. Social Forces 88(2): 487–518.

    Google Scholar 

  • Miller, Alan, and Rodney Stark. 2002. Gender and religiousness: Can socialization explanations be saved? The American Journal of Sociology 107(6): 1399–1423.

    Google Scholar 

  • Millman, Marcia. 1991. Warm hearts, cold cash: The intimate dynamics of families and money. New York: Free Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Newman, Katherine S. 2012. The accordion family: Boomerang kids, anxious parents, and the private toll of global competition. Boston: Beacon Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Pagel, Mark. 2012. Wired for culture: Origins of the human social mind. New York: W.W. Norton & Company.

    Google Scholar 

  • Parker, Kim, and Wendy Wang. 2013. Modern parenthood: Roles of moms and dads converge as they balance work and family. Washington, DC: Pew Research Center.

    Google Scholar 

  • Pinker, Steven. 2002. The blank slate: The modern denial of human nature. New York: Penguin Books.

    Google Scholar 

  • Prell, Riv-Ellen. 2007. Family formation, educational choice, and American Jewish identity. In Family Matters: Jewish Education in an Age of Choice, ed. Jack Wertheimer, 3–33. Lebanon, NH: Brandeis University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Riley, Naomi Schaefer. 2013. ’Til faith do us part: how interfaith marriage is transforming America. New York: Oxford University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Risman, Barbara J., and Danette Johnson-Sumerford. 1998. Doing it fairly: A study of postgender marriages. Journal of Marriage and the Family 60: 23–40.

    Google Scholar 

  • Ritterband, Paul (ed.). 1981. Modern Jewish fertility. Leiden, Netherlands: E.J. Brill.

    Google Scholar 

  • Sandelowski, Margaret. 1990. Fault lines: infertility and imperiled sisterhood. Feminist Studies 16(1): 33–51.

    Google Scholar 

  • Saxe, Leonard, Michelle Shain, Shahar Hecht, Graham Wright, Micha Rieser, and Theodore Sasson. 2014. Jewish Futures Project. The impact of Taglit Birthright Israel: Marriage and family. Waltham, MA: Cohen Center for Modern Jewish Studies, Brandeis University.

    Google Scholar 

  • Saxe, Leonard, Michelle Shain, Graham Wright, Shahar Hecht, Shira Fishman, and Theodore Sasson. 2012. The Impact of Taglit-Birthright Israel: 2012 Update. Waltham, MA: Cohen Center for Modern Jewish Studies, Brandeis University.

    Google Scholar 

  • Schäfer, Gabriele. 2008. Romantic love in heterosexual relationships: Women’s experiences. Journal of Social Sciences 16(3): 187–197.

    Google Scholar 

  • Skolnick, Arlene. 1991. Embattled paradise: The American family in an age of uncertainty. New York: Basic Books.

    Google Scholar 

  • Slaughter, Anne-Marie. 2012. Why women still can’t have it all. July/August: The Atlantic Monthly.

    Google Scholar 

  • Stacey, Judith. 1996. In the name of the family: Rethinking family values in the postmodern age. Boston: Beacon Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Stacey, Judith. 1998. Brave new families: Stories of domestic upheaval in late-twentieth century America. Los Angeles, CA: University of California Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Stark, Rodney. 2002. Physiology and faith: addressing the “universal” gender difference in religious commitment. Journal for the Scientific Study of Religion 41(3): 495–507.

    Google Scholar 

  • Steele, Fiona, Constantinos Kallis, and Heather Joshi. 2006. The formation and outcomes of cohabiting and marital partnerships in early adulthood: The role of previous partnership experience. Journal of the Royal Statistical Society. Series A (Statistics in Society) 169(4): 757–779.

    Google Scholar 

  • Steinem, Gloria. 1987. Humanism and the second wave of feminism. Humanist May/June 11–15: 49.

    Google Scholar 

  • Taylor, Paul, Kim Parker, Wendy Wang, Richard Morin, Juliana M. Horowitz, D’Vera Cohn, and Gretchen Livingston. 2010. The decline of marriage and rise of new families, 122. New York: Pew Research Center.

    Google Scholar 

  • Tiger, Lionel. 2000. The decline of males: The first look at an unexpected new world for men and women. New York: St. Martin’s Griffin.

    Google Scholar 

  • Townsend, Nicholas W. 2002. The package deal: Marriage, work, and fatherhood in men’s lives. Philadelphia: Temple University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Vannoy-Hiller, Dana, and William W. Philliber. 1989. Equal partners: Successful women in marriage. Thousand Oaks, CA: SAGE Publications.

    Google Scholar 

  • Waite, Linda J. 2002. The American Jewish family: What we know. What we need to know. Contemporary Jewry 23: 35–63.

    Google Scholar 

  • Wasserman, Marlene. 2007. Is marriage the best form of relationship recognition? Sexual and Relationship Therapy 22(2): 57–158.

    Google Scholar 

  • Wertheimer, Jack (ed.). 2007. Family matters: Jewish education in an age of choice. Waltham, MA: Brandeis University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Wertheimer, Jack (ed.). 2011. The new Jewish leaders: Reshaping the American Jewish landscape. Waltham, MA: Brandeis University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Williams, Kristi. 2003. Has the future of marriage arrived? A contemporary examination of gender, marriage, and psychological well-being. Journal of Health and Social Behavior 44: 470–487.

    Google Scholar 

  • Winerip, Michael. 2013. A man’s view on “having it all.” The New York Times March 24, p. 11.

  • Wuthnow, Robert. 2010. After the baby boomers: How twenty- and thirty-somethings are shaping the future of American religion. Princeton, NJ: Princeton University Press.

    Google Scholar 

  • Zhang, Li. 2008. Religious affiliation, religiosity, and male and female fertility. Demographic Research 18(8): 233–262.

    Google Scholar 

Download references

Author information

Authors and Affiliations

Authors

Corresponding author

Correspondence to Sylvia Barack Fishman.

Rights and permissions

Reprints and permissions

About this article

Check for updates. Verify currency and authenticity via CrossMark

Cite this article

Fishman, S.B. American Jewishness Today: Identity and Transmissibility in an Open World. Cont Jewry 35, 109–128 (2015). https://doi.org/10.1007/s12397-015-9141-6

Download citation

  • Received:

  • Accepted:

  • Published:

  • Issue Date:

  • DOI: https://doi.org/10.1007/s12397-015-9141-6

Keywords

Navigation