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Across two studies, we investigated how friends’ typically used emotion regulation strategies (rumination or reappraisal) influence judgements about their vicarious emotions (sympathy, tenderness, and personal distress) when presented with a photograph of a suffering toddler. Results of both studies demonstrated that participants reporting on a ruminative friend indicated that their friend would feel greater personal distress and less tenderness and would perceive the toddler as experiencing more need and pain than participants reporting on a reappraising friend. These results are consistent with the behavioural trajectories associated with rumination and reappraisal, and are discussed in light of their implications for interpersonal emotion regulation.
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López-Pérez, B., Sanchez, J. & Parkinson, B. Perceived effects of other people’s emotion regulation on their vicarious emotional response. Motiv Emot 41, 113–121 (2017). https://doi.org/10.1007/s11031-016-9585-3
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