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To date, the US military has made major strides in acknowledging and therapeutically addressing trauma and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) in service members and their families. However, given the nature of warfare and high rates of losses sustained by both military members (e.g., deaths of fellow unit members) and military families (e.g., loss of a young parent who served in the military), as well as the ongoing threat of loss that military families face during deployment, we propose that a similar focus on grief is also needed to properly understand and address many of the challenges encountered by bereaved service members, spouses, and children. In this article, we describe a newly developed theory of grief (multidimensional grief theory) and apply it to the task of exploring major features of military-related experiences during the phases of deployment, reintegration, and the aftermath of combat death—especially as they impact children. We also describe implications for designing preventive interventions during each phase and conclude with recommended avenues for future research. Primary aims are to illustrate: (1) the indispensable role of theory in guiding efforts to describe, explain, predict, prevent, and treat maladaptive grief in military service members, children, and families; (2) the relevance of multidimensional grief theory for addressing both losses due to physical death as well as losses brought about by extended physical separations to which military children and families are exposed during and after deployment; and (3) a focus on military-related grief as a much-needed complement to an already-established focus on military-related PTSD.
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We recognize that other family members, including siblings, parents, and grandparents of military service members, also face similar grief-related challenges. Given space constraints, we focus primarily on military spouses and children in this article.
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The authors wish to acknowledge Amanda Burnside for her assistance in conducting the literature searches for this article. This work was supported in part by the grants NIMH K08 MH76078; Michigan Institute for Clinical and Health Research U031178; the Todd Ouida Clinical Scholars Award; the Laurence Polatsch Memorial Fund; and the Rachel Upjohn Clinical Scholars Award given to the first author.
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Drs. Layne and Kaplow are co-authors of the Bereavement Risk and Resilience Index (BRRI), a tool for assessing risk and protective factors in the context of loss. Drs. Layne, Kaplow, and Pynoos are co-authors of (1) the Persistent Complex Bereavement Disorder Checklist (PCBD Checklist), a tool for assessing DSM-5 proposed criteria for Persistent Complex Bereavement Disorder; and (2) the Multidimensional Grief Reactions Scale (MGRS), a broad-spectrum measure of adaptive and maladaptive grief reactions. Drs. Layne, Saltzman, Kaplow, and Pynoos are co-authors of Trauma and Grief Component Therapy for Adolescents (TGCT-A), a modularized treatment manual.
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Kaplow, J.B., Layne, C.M., Saltzman, W.R. et al. Using Multidimensional Grief Theory to Explore the Effects of Deployment, Reintegration, and Death on Military Youth and Families. Clin Child Fam Psychol Rev 16, 322–340 (2013). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10567-013-0143-1
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