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This study examined the role of romantic attraction and conflict resolution patterns in shorter and longer relationship maintenance among adolescent couples. Data were used from 55 couples aged 15–18 years. Partners completed the Romantic Attraction scale and were observed negotiating a disagreement. Three and 6 months later, they were asked to report whether they were still together. Findings indicated that partners’ romantic attraction and the tendency to minimize disagreements during interaction predicted shorter relationship maintenance. In contrast, longer relationship maintenance was predicted by partners’ capability to resolve conflicts constructively in a positive atmosphere. Findings are embedded and discussed within Fisher’s (2004) evolutionary theory of love.
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Appel, I., Shulman, S. The Role of Romantic Attraction and Conflict Resolution in Predicting Shorter and Longer Relationship Maintenance Among Adolescents. Arch Sex Behav 44, 777–782 (2015). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-014-0471-3
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