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Appropriate Therapeutic Care for Families with Pre-Pubescent Transgender/Gender-Dissonant Children

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In recent years, a new phenomenon has been observed in U.S. culture, that of pre-pubescent children transitioning socially from one gender role to another, with the support of their families. As this phenomenon becomes more widespread, families, schools and other institutions will turn to mental health care professionals for guidance in navigating new territory. Such children have often been assessed for gender identity disorder; the traditional treatment plan for those so diagnosed included attempts to steer their gender behavior in more “gender-appropriate” directions. Allowing such children to self-actualize, viewing their behavior as indicative of innate identity, is a relatively new approach. This paper will focus on the social worker’s or therapist’s role in helping pre-pubescent children and their families, should the families decide identity actualization is the path they would prefer.

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Vanderburgh, R. Appropriate Therapeutic Care for Families with Pre-Pubescent Transgender/Gender-Dissonant Children. Child Adolesc Soc Work J 26, 135–154 (2009). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10560-008-0158-5

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